Andazi ngalo bhuti ungadinwayo, ndicinga ukuba wadinwa) Oodade ngokuqinisekileyo bakwi-positive. Indlela ababhaqwe ngayo ngumama wabo nalo bhuti bazimela, yayicingwe kakuhle. Kodwa bathe xa beqhubeka wabe lo mama noba ungubani andimazi ehleli ecaleni kwabo, ndandingaqondi ukuba beyenzela ntoni lonto. Bekumnandi ukubukela, ngakumbi oosisi, ubhuti ebemane engenzi nto kwikliphu, ebengade aboniswe.
Ngubani ongathandabuzayo ukuba oku kwakungeke kwenzeke phakathi kwabo, ngokwemvelo umfazi wawela kwi-stud eselula.